In this impactful talk, Vasu Primlani takes us through the psychology of a person who commits a crime, the presence of an elemental lack of empathy, the normalization of criminal behavior during the growing up phase of a child. In the end, she explains why is it important to "Learn to love yourself, before you could love another". Vasu Primlani is a well renowned stand-up comedian. She is also a triathlete, an environmentalist and a recipient of coveted Nari Shakti Puraskar in 2015 by Government of India. She has spoken on issues like Green City and Nation, Body Image and Self Image apart from a mix of comedy derived from everyday affairs. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx