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Dealing with walking on eggshells, substance abuse, ultimatums - Anonymus Live #067








Uploaded to YouTube by: Julian Smith
Date submitted to Unlisted Videos: 19 August 2023
Date uploaded/published to YouTube: 4 October 2022

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This is an anonymous listening circle where callers can share about severe, difficult experiences and be heard. BEFORE CALLING, PLEASE READ THE BELOW. (Full call topic descriptions can be found below as well.)

I [Julian'> am not a psychologist. This is not a substitute for counseling or therapy. This is not a life or career advice show. It's a safe place to confess something or discuss difficult experiences, anonymously. The chat and I lend listening ears, empathy, and if asked, might make suggestions from our personal experiences. We might also refer callers to the works of various mental health professionals and authors which have helped us. We are only humans trying to help others. Please do your own research and don't mistake suggestions offered here for prescriptions. When you call, the phone will ring and I may answer. Please be ready for a conversation when you dial. If you disclose your name or location your call will be *toast to protect your anonymity. Please respect the other callers and do not call without good reason. Trolls will be *toast and blocked permanently. (*Toast = I hang up on you.)

Call to talk anonymously: (888) 765-3811 (international toll-free)

15% of all proceeds from this project are donated to various charities and helplines. This percentage will grow as the project grows.

Psychology Today - FIND A THERAPIST (awesome tool for locating a qualified therapist near you)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us

LIFE COACHING
Julian is offering a limited number of life coaching sessions for specific topics. If you are interested, email: js [at'> anonymuslive [dot'> com

(Life coaching topics include: Career & Business, Relationship Issues, Grief, Divorce, Self-loathing, Life Transitions, Familial Estrangement, Dealing With Psychopaths, Spirituality, Religious Trauma & Deconstruction)

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[anonym'>us live: Tuesdays & Thursdays @ 10pm Eastern, 7pm Pacific

New videos every week!

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CHAPTER MARKERS
0:00 - Welcome
7:39 - Call 1: Addictive personality [substance abuse'>, recent breakup, alcoholic father; Age: 20
47:26 - Call 2: Recent divorce [first heartbreak'>, depression, difficulty with communication [walking on eggshells'>, attachment style theory; Age: 23 (college student)
1:28:00 - Call 3: Return caller, positive update, benefits from guided meditation
1:36:30 - Call 4: Ultimatums, choosing between partner and parents, custody battle for pet; Age: 26
1:57:39 - Farewell

THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS STREAM
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture - (By Gabor Maté MD, with Daniel Maté)
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57951388-the-myth-of-normal

Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - (By Carolyn Elliott PHD)
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50915816-existential-kink

Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care about Has Borderline Personality Disorder - (By Paul T. Mason MS, Randi Kreger)
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/188013.Stop_Walking_on_Eggshells

Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist - (By Ramani Durvasula PHD)
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27159889-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go

Ramani Durvasula - YouTube
https://youtube.com/c/DoctorRamani

Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People - (By Jackson MacKenzie)
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/26190453-psychopath-free

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love - (By Amir Levine MD, Rachel S.F. Heller MA)
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/9547888-attached


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